A call for action and support

October is widely recognized as Breast Cancer Awareness Month and people wear pink in honor of the those who are currently battling the disease, those who survived it and those who didn’t.

October is also recognized nationwide as Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a time dedicated to raising awareness, supporting survivors and promoting efforts to end abuse in all its forms.

Established in 1987, DVAM unites advocates, communities and organizations in the shared mission to break the cycle of violence and foster safe, healthy relationships.

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), 1-in-3 women and 1-in-4 men in the United States experience some form of physical violence by an intimate partner during their lifetime.

I know people, some quite close to me, who have experienced this.

They say time heals all wounds, and for some that may be true, but not all.

The pain may be gone but the scars are what they are… scars.

Despite the alarming statistics mentioned above, domestic violence often remains hidden due to fear, shame or lack of resources. Advocates emphasize that awareness and education are key to prevention.

Throughout October, local shelters, advocacy groups and law enforcement agencies host events such as candlelight vigils, educational workshops and social media campaigns. These efforts aim to honor victims, celebrate survivors and engage the public in meaningful dialogue. The color purple—the official color of DVAM—is often worn to show solidarity and support for those affected by abuse.

Many organizations also use the month to highlight available resources. The National Domestic Violence Hotline, reachable at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or by texting “START” to 88788, provides free, confidential support 24 hours a day. Advocates can connect callers with emergency shelters, legal assistance and counseling services.

Experts stress that awareness must be coupled with action. Communities can play a vital role by supporting local shelters, donating to advocacy organizations and educating others about recognizing signs of abuse. Warning signs may include controlling behavior, isolation from friends and family, verbal threats or unexplained injuries.

Domestic violence affects people of all backgrounds regardless of age, gender or socioeconomic status. While progress has been made through stronger laws and greater public awareness, advocates say continued efforts are essential to ensure safety and justice for survivors.

As DVAM continues throughout October, individuals and communities are encouraged to take part—whether by attending an event, volunteering or simply starting a conversation. Together, these actions contribute to a future where love and respect replace fear and violence.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit www.thehotline.org.